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All Good Things Must Come to An End: Dropped Nap Update

Well, it’s time to confess that my almost three-year old’s naps are pretty much over.  I was so proud that we were able to bring them back after some struggles at two and a half, but that only lasted for a few months before we went into total “I don’t want to nap AT ALL” mode.  Luckily, a dear friend shared her experience of “catch-up naps” with me, and that seems to be working for us, creating a delicate balance whereby Logan gets just enough sleep not to break down completely at the end of each day (thank you, Rattana).  After two or three days of no naps, Logan is totally exhausted.  Enter the catch-up nap.  He is able to fully refresh for another couple of days without naps until he needs another catch-up nap.  On the days when he doesn’t nap, he’s generally asleep by 7pm (a nice, new early bed time).  On the days he does nap, we struggle to get him down by 8pm, but I’ve at least had some sort of a big break during the day.  It’s not perfect, but it’s a good transition solution – *just* enough rest for Logan, *just* enough of a break for mama.

I always try to pass on good sleeping tips when I get them, because as a mom to two high energy children who don’t much care for sleep, I take good sleep advice whenever I can get it!  So, to all of you out there who are struggling/will struggle with the early dropped nap, try Rattana’s advice.  The catch-up nap is a good balance for little ones and parents alike.

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Going strong on a no-nap day

In Asia, It’s a Fair-Haired Child’s World

I’m guessing that many of my readers in the region will be able to relate to this piece about what it’s like to raise fair-skinned babies in Asia.

Many, many thanks to World Moms Blog, a “Must Read” by the New York Times Motherlode and listed in the Forbes Top 100 Websites for Women 2012, for publishing my piece.

In Asia, It’s a Fair-Haired Child’s World – via World Moms Blog

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Kate making friends in Chiang Rai, Thailand

Ode to Asian Air Carriers

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Kate enroute home from Phuket on Bangkok Airways at 13 months old

Ode to Asian Air Carriers

Oh Asian air carriers how I love you so,

You still allow my family priority boarding

so we don’t block our neighbors’ row;

You give my children stickers before take-off so they won’t throw a fit

when that seatbelt sign is on and we’re not quite cruising yet.

You care about their safety and bring us infant belts;

Your flight attendants are kind and patient

Pretending not to notice my baby’s flying yogurt melts.

Drinks, meals and snacks are a routine part of the flight

Proving that even in a short 45 minutes, you still get all the basics right.

Inflight when we walk the aisles

With our two spawn under three,

Your attendants waiting in the galley utter murmurs of glee.

They cannot wait to get their hands on our tireless little tots,

And when they do they pose and call in their paparazzi to get the perfect shots.

When my toddler sprints down the aisle furiously almost breaching the cockpit door,

You don’t shriek or yell or lose your sh*t,

You let him run some more.

Pillow, blanket, water, juice – these requests are not taboo;

You don’t treat your passengers like a travelling circus zoo.

Oh Asian air carriers we’re so thankful for you;

We’ll fly you every chance we get

Because helping families is what you do.

Air Travel Done Right:  Logan on a Flight to Bali at 10 Months Old

Logan enroute to Bali  on Air Asia at 10 Months Old

Free Trip to Phuket? Yes, Please.

Children behaving badly.  Something we can all relate to.  Vacation needed.  Also something we can all relate to.  Put those two things together and the brilliant minds over at Expecting Expats have put together a contest you won’t want to miss.  Just how easy is it?

a.  Submit a photo that best displays your need for a weekend away from daily life with the kids;

b. and win a round trip airfare for two from Bangkok to Phuket and a two-night stay at the Outrigger Laguna Phuket Beach Resort (assuming yours is the winning photo).

That’s it.

I won the last contest and was awarded a free massage.  This is way cooler.  So what are you waiting for?

You can find all of the details here:  Expecting Expats Photo Contest.

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Not a good day for a stroll

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Loving siblings

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I’m a little nervous for this one to become a teenager

Dishing on the BTS: While Pregnant and with Kids

Hi Everyone!  I wrote a little something about my experience with taking the BTS while pregnant (spoiler alert:  much more comfortable than taking the Washington DC Metro while pregnant) and with tots in tow.  Check it out on the Expecting Expats site here.

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Okay, so this was not taken on the BTS, but I thought I should leave you with some photo, and this is a recent favorite of mine (Anantara Golden Triangle)

Go Here Now

We just spent an excellent five days in Pran Buri, Thailand – a relaxed, picturesque, and largely undeveloped beach area just south of Hua Hin.  I have heard about the charm of Pran Buri from friends that have lived in Thailand much longer than we have, but it took us two and a half years to make it there on our own.  And now I’m glad we did it with one year in Thailand to spare.

Perhaps the best thing about Pran Buri is what it is not:  Hua Hin.  We’ve all been to a fancy resort in Hua Hin and enjoyed it (we sure have), but what it lacks is the ability to feel like you are far removed from Bangkok; meaning, you still get traffic, you still deal with relentless vendors (on the beach, mainly), you still get the crowds, and your view is still tall buildings (with a bit of ocean).  Pran Buri offers you something much less urban, much less fussy, and even more beautiful.  So go.  At least once.  I’m pretty sure you won’t regret it.

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Views from the Dolphin Bay restaurant in Pran Buri

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These guys don’t know how good they have it!

Here is how we did it:

STAY:  We are fortunate enough to have several families that tolerate travelling with us every now and then, so we rented an eight-bedroom villa with its own pool and outdoor cabana for grilling, eating, playing, napping, drinking, and playing board games (both with and without the kids) with three other families.  In total, there were eight adults and eight children.  We swam from morning to night.  Families brought inflatable boat rafts and water guns, so there was always a lot of action in the pool.  So much fun!  In case your interested, the link to the house we rented is here.

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Pool action

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Good reads

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Basic bedroom in our villa

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Massage parlour (yes, our villa was outfitted with a massage area)!

If you’re not travelling in a group, I would recommend staying at the Dolphin Bay Resort.  With a big grassy lawn, a children’s pool, a water slide for the older ones, a playground that boasts real toddler swings , and a wide, uncongested beach just across the street, this is the place to go with kids.  Dolphin Bay has always been rather kid-friendly, but new ownership – the same wonderful people who own Cafe Tartine (see my post on how awesome a place Cafe Tartine is here) – has made it even more worth the visit.  Agathe Verge, the new owner, has relocated to Pran Buri with her family and is fervently working on upgrading many aspects of Dolphin Bay.  You can now find Cafe Tartine favorites offered on the menu (Ham and Brie Sandwich, Salad Nicoise, and Creme Brulee to name a few) and a brand new wooden outdoor playground (designed and built by the same brilliant folks responsible for the renown playground at Bangkok Patana school).  The next thing in the works is a glassed-in indoor play area by the pool and restaurant so that parents can enjoy a meal or glass of rose while the kids beat the heat inside.  And that is one thing I should note about Dolphin Bay.  There is not a whole lot of shade, so bring lots of high-SPF sunscreen, sun hats, and sun shirts so that your lovely vacation does not go awry.

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The awesome playground at Dolphin Bay

EAT:  If you like BBQ, you must (double underline, bold, all caps) go to The Roadhouse BBQ (phone:  032-630523)  Owned by a gregarious and personable San Franciscan named Greg and his amazingly talented wife Sue (who does all of the cooking), this place offers pork ribs like you have never tasted in Thailand.  In fact, they take their ribs so seriously, you have to stop by the restaurant and order  a rack (or two, or three) a day before you plan to dine.  The pulled pork sandwich is supposedly divine and I can personally vouch for the ribs (of course!), grilled pork chop, and chicken quesadilla.  And the owners are super-kid friendly.  Our group of eight children sat at the bar drinking milk, eating quesadillas, and watching How To Tame Your Dragon while the parents ate mounds of ribs and drank many cold beers.  This was all thanks to the owner for making it a kid-friendly environment for us that evening.

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Hangin’ at the bar, drinkin’ milk, watching’ cartoons

DO:  Aside from the fact that Pran Buri is adjacent to the beautiful Sam Roi Yot National Park and the fact that you can go to the beach all you want, there are a few other activities we did that really added to our trip:

1. Black Mountain Water Park (off of the Hua Hin bypass; between Hua Hin and Pran  Buri):  Worth a visit.  Brand-new, well-run, not crowded, all seated areas are shaded, great small water playground for younger kids, wave pool (beware:  the waves are big), lots of slides, lazy river.  I was a bit worried that Katelyn and Logan would be too young for this, but they actually really enjoyed the lazy river, kids water playground, and the wave pool sans waves (and the soft serve ice cream)!  Water park entry for adults is 600 baht; kids under a certain age enter for free.  Also, the water park is adjacent to a cable-led wakeboarding lake (awesome if you’re into that kind of thing).  

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Water park!

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Kids’ water area

2. Hua Hin Hills Vineyard (also off of the Hua Hin bypass; between Hua Hin and Pran Buri):  While the kids dozed for two hours post-water park, we took the opportunity to drive to Hua Hin Vineyard.  Located about 25km off of the bypass, the vineyard is in a beautiful setting and offers a restaurant, biking, elephants, and more for visitors.  We’ve heard that the restaurant is good and that cycling through the vineyards can be a lot of fun (not in the hot season for obvious reasons), but with two sleeping kids in the car, we decided not to tempt fate by stopping.  Se la vie.

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This is why we decided not to stop the car . . . two hours of uninterrupted bliss

3. Swiss Sheep Farm (in Cha-Am; just north of Hua Hin):  Okay, this place is super-kitschy.  In fact it is so over the top that you will want to puke . . . but, your kids will love it (especially young boys who are into cars and trucks).  I’m pretty sure the whole reason this place exists is to create a place for young Thais in love to take photos together.  After all, the slogan on their home page is, “Feel like a farm, smell like the heaven . . . on earth.”  WTF? Anyway, the point is, this place not only has lots of sheep and calves to feed, which is a lot of fun for toddlers, they also have a huge tractor, a Ford pick-up truck, Volkswagon van, Mini-Cooper, and other cool cars to sit in and pretend to drive.  And entry is only 60 baht per adult.  The perfect activity to break up the trip on the way home.

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Feeding a calf

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Logan’s facial expression = priceless

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See, I told you it was cheesy

So there you have it.  Visit Pran Buri.  You’ll feel like you are worlds away from Bangkok.  It’s well worth the drive for a long weekend out of town.

Have I piqued your interest?  If so, you can see more photos below (there were just too many)!

Calling All (Young) Firefighters

A visit by a Thai fire brigade?  The ability to climb aboard fire trucks, play with their gadgets, and meet real firemen?  Isn’t this THE dream for all young boys? Well, if you’re in town over this long weekend, you can certainly make your fire-fighting toddler’s dream come true.  An event that looks like it is certainly worth checking out.  Enjoy!

Location:  Neilson Hayes Library (Silom)
Date: Saturday 25 May, 2013

Time: 10:30am – 12noon

Check out this link for more details:   Firefighting at Neilson Hayes

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Logan visiting a local fire brigade in northern Virginia over Christmas

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