What? You’re Telling Me I Can’t Get an Epidural?!

For those mamas soon-to-deliver in Bangkok, I thought I’d shed some light on a recent rumor that’s going around about hospitals changing their policies on epidurals, and in some cases, the inability to get epidurals at all.  With an impending delivery on the way myself, you better believe I wanted to get to the bottom of what is really happening before Baby Girl Braunohler makes her debut in May.  I heard everything from – “women haven’t been able to get epidurals” to “more women are choosing c-sections” to “once you have an epidural, the anesthesiologist stays in the room with you the entire time through delivery, and you now pay based on the amount of time you are in labor with an epidural (instead of a set fee for having an epidural).”  I held out until 7cm to get an epidural when I was in labor with Logan, but I can tell you that I would not have wanted to know what the final 3cm + pitocin + pushing and final delivery would have felt like without it.  So, yes, when the time comes, I better be able to get an epidural if I want one.

According to my OB,  sixteen years ago, a women in labor at Samitivej Hospital died of an amniotic fluid embolism, a very rare condition that is almost always fatal.  The anesthesiologist who had administered her epidural was able to reach her in about one minute, however her rapidly deteriorating situation could not be reversed and she died quickly.  Last month, the judge rendered a decision on the case (yes, after 16 years!) and found the medical team to be at fault for not attending to the woman sooner.  As a result, all anesthesiologists in the city went on strike — and if you happened to deliver on that unlucky day or two last month, an epidural would have been very difficult to come by.  Because of the decision, hospitals quickly realized they needed to “take care of their own,” and each one restructured their policies and protocol for anesthesiologists working in labor and maternity wards.  As I will be delivering at Bumrungrad, the hospital has now hired an anesthesiologist to be present in the labor and maternity ward at all times.  In the event that you have an epidural and then have to deliver via c-section, you will be taken to the operating room and handled by a second anesthesiologist for the c-section.   This means that you will pay double the doctor’s fees for anesthesia, since the delivery will require two anesthesiologists instead of one.  I understand from other mothers that have/are delivering at Samitivej, if you are administered an epidural, the anesthesiologist must remain with you in the room through delivery.  You will then pay anesthesiologist fees based on the length of time you were in labor with an epidural instead of a set price for having an epidural.  I’m not sure about BNH or other hospitals in town, but if you know, please do share.

I hope this clears up some confusion surrounding why hospitals’ policies and pricing are changing.  One less thing to worry about during labor and delivery certainly makes for a more calm mama!

Our Fave Top Ten Toddler Books

We are always looking for new books for our avid reader.  Classics like Dr. Seuss and Goodnight Moon aside, here are our top ten favorite books so far, in no particular order:*

1.  Jamberry by Bruce Degen – this was a very early favorite and continues to be a joy for the whole family.  It is a fun, imaginative read with captivating rhythmic prose about, yes, berries!

2. The Icky Sticky Anteater by Dawn Bentley and Carly Castillon – our child loves anteaters, and for this reason, we searched for any and all books on anteaters.  Surprisingly, there are not that many books out there about the odd little creatures, so we took a chance on this one.  What an excellent find!  Not only is it a fun book that has great rhyming prose, it teaches a valuable lesson about being your own individual.  If your child has an anteater obsession like ours, this book should definitely be part of your collection!

3. Goodnight, Goodnight Construction Site by Tom Lichtenheld and Sherri Duskey Rinker – we found this one thanks to an excellent New York Times review.  Well-written with beautiful illustrations, the creators make routine construction vehicles come to life as they get ready to end their day and say goodnight.

4. Little Blue Truck by Alice Schertle and Jill McElmurry – love this book!  It teaches excellent lessons about patience and the value of friendships. The book also has an excellent sequel:  Little Blue Truck Leads the Way.

5. Speedy Little Race Cars by Heather Cahoon – another early favorite.  We started reading it to Logan at about 6 months, at which time he loved the feel of the raised race cars.  More than one year later, Logan still loves the book, but less for the raised cars, and more for the bustling activity of race spectators found on each page.

6. The Going-To-Bed Book by Sandra Boynton – anything by Sandra Boynton is excellent.  Her books are short, witty, and fun.

7.  If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff – this is a relatively new one for us.  The mouse is endearing, as is the little boy who takes care of him for the day.  A very sweet read.

8. Richard Scarry’s Cars and Trucks and Things That Go by Richard Scarry – At first I thought this book would be too busy for Logan at his young age of 18 months, but I was dead wrong.  It is the number of illustrations of cars, trucks, buses, train, scooters – you get the idea – and the classic imagination of Richard Scarry that capture his attention and excitement.  I’m not kidding you when I say that we spend at least 1-2 hours a day on this book alone.  It never gets old.

9.  The Sleepy Little Alphabet by Judy Sierra – thank you, Oprah, for this suggestion from your Kids’ Reading List.  It’s a classic bedtime story that also teaches the alphabet.

10. Sheep in a Jeep by Nancy E. Shaw and Margot Apple – who can resist the temptation of reading a book about sheep driving a jeep?  This one will make you and your child laugh with its simple, yet catchy, prose.

*Disclaimer:  We have a car enthusiast at home (well, between Dad and Logan we have two), therefore many of these books are transportation-heavy.  Ahh, the joys of a testosterone-charged home!

How Uncool Can You Get?

The other day, my husband and I were remarking that our 2012 progeny will be born in the Year of the Dragon. Our firstborn came along in the Year of the Tiger.  My husband and I were born in . . . the Year of the Sheep.

If that doesn’t make us, as parents, sound lame, I’m not sure what does.